My friend and colleague, Deborah Klens-Bigman is an accomplished martial artist and respected scholar of Japanese classical dance. She often does me the honor of serving as a sounding board for ideas, and generously edits my posts to make them polished. This time Klens-Bigman Sensei responded to my ideas with an essay of her own, which I 'm proud to be able to publish here.
So you wanna cross-train?
Previously,  two posts considered cross-training in other budo.  The first set
 out the benefits as a means to deepen understanding of your primary art. 
The subsequent post looked at another
 side of the issue - that some martial arts teachers might forbid their 
students to seek training at another dojo. 
That post also suggested that students caught up in such an 
arrangement may have picked the wrong person to train with in the first 
place, and speculates on such teachers' selfish motivations.
So - here we have two solid arguments in favor of 
"cross-training."  It seems like a good idea, right?  Find a different 
(though maybe related) art form, and go for it, right? 
 Not so fast.  There's a right way, and a wrong way, to train at a 
different dojo.  If done right, you can obtain benefit for yourself and do credit to your home dojo.  If not, well - read on.
Let's first assume that you are a student in good standing, who is
also not a raw beginner.  A 
very-beginning student who seeks training in another art form gives a 
teacher the impression that you are not serious in your practice in the 
first place.  The term for this (at least in English)
 is "dojo-hopper."  The sense is that the student is in some sort of 
martial arts shopping mall, with various things on offer.  Come in, poke
 around, try a couple things on, and go on to the next store.  This is 
definitely how to shop for a prom dress, but
 most budo teachers take their practice seriously, and expect students 
to do likewise.  
Next, let's consider motivations.  I am not talking
 about jumping ship and looking for a new teacher - that's a different 
subject altogether (see above).  And I seriously doubt
 you would look around and think to yourself, "I'll bet I could deepen 
my understanding of the principles of [fill in name of current practice]
 by trying out [something else]."  More likely you saw something on 
YouTube or even (shockingly, but it does happen)
 at a live demo and you thought it looked cool and would be fun to try. 
 NYC is a veritable feast of martial traditions, both Asian and Western,
 old and new (and even theatrical and cinematic!).  It's easy to feel 
like a kid in a candy store.  There is nothing
 wrong with this motivation.  But there is a proper way to go about it. 
 So I am offering a list - from smartest to dumbest
- ways to go about cross training in a different budo form.
1.  Talk to your teacher and ask for permission to 
try something else, and ask for her suggestions as to where to find 
another dojo.  For example, you could say, "I was thinking
 about trying a jujutsu class.  I wanted to run the idea past you 
first.  Do you have any suggestions as to who I could study with?"  
Believe it or not, even in a place as huge as the Big City, many budo 
teachers at least know each other by reputation, if not
 personally.  Moreover, we know who the crank teachers are; or, at 
least, we have the means to find them out.    Asking for permission, 
along with asking for advice, accomplishes several goals - it shows the 
teacher you respect her, and that you respect her
 opinion.  It also puts you in line for a good recommendation with one 
of her colleagues.  Having been recommended and accepted for 
cross-training in another dojo also shows respect with regard to the 
other teacher, who then has a clear idea of who you are
 and may have a sense of what you might be able to accomplish by 
training with him.
 2.  Ask your teacher for permission only.  This is
 not as smart as suggestion number 1, but it at least shows enough 
respect to your teacher that she won't throw you through the
 nearest wall.  Most teachers will say yes (and if she doesn't agree, 
there is probably a reason, as in she doesn't think you are ready to 
branch out.  If you respect the teacher, you will respect her opinion 
and ask again later).  Some may volunteer advice
 if they think you might be interested in hearing it; others may just 
say it's fine, and you are then free to roam.  
 3. (Moving to less-smart ways).  Go somewhere else
 and don't tell either the primary teacher or the new teacher what you 
are doing.  I don't recommend this, but it can actually
 work, as long as you exercise some discretion.  Don't do what one of my
 students once did: blow off a request to perform at a demo by 
explaining that you have a tournament with another teacher that 
weekend.  Just say you're sorry and you can't make it; and
 you hope to be able to perform with the group at another time.  Being 
so up front about your conflicted schedule may send a teacher the 
message that you are so enamored with the new style that you are not as 
interested in what she has to teach (even if that
 isn't strictly true).  Moreover, not 
supporting the dojo when it asks for your help also makes you look less 
serious about your practice, unless it involves work or family issues. 
Your perceived lack of interest may result in the teacher's attention 
being directed a little bit more to other students instead.  
Tangentially, if the second teacher learns about your primary art form 
by other means than your telling him about it, you may find yourself 
getting the same treatment.  I'm jus' sayin'.  We
 like to think that our teachers have better tempers and more wisdom 
than lowly students (and they might), but they are also human beings 
(with a lot more experience than you) and they have feelings, too.  And 
those feelings should be respected if you are serious
 about your art form.
 4.  Declare that you are going "budo shopping" for other stuff to do - you
say you may come back to the home dojo someday, but then again you may not.  Believe it or not, this has actually happened. 
At the risk of stating the obvious, the 
student has given the impression that the teacher (and her art form) are
 interchangeable; with one practice being not any better or worse than 
another. 
The now-former student in 
question was fortunate to have done this via email and not in person.  
Needless to say, this person is no longer welcome (except, just 
*possibly* as a guest, and paying the guest mat fee). 
 Unless you really intend not to come back at all, I don't recommend 
this method.  
 5.  Just show up at a new place and disparage your
 primary teacher to gain favor with the new one.  As I said, we all know
 each other, by reputation if not personally.  Remember
 the six degrees of separation?  In the budo world, it's more like one or two.  You won't be accepted once the truth comes out.
 As my colleague the Budo Bum has said, there are 
many benefits to cross-training, and most of them won't be revealed 
until you have spent months (or even years) training in another
 form.  In my budo career, though my primary art is iaido, I have also 
done some training in naginata, kyudo, kendo, some empty-hand, and I am 
currently studying jodo as a rank beginner.  I also train in Japanese 
classical dance;
 an art form that developed in the Edo period that shares many 
principles of movement with koryu budo forms.   Many of my colleagues 
and teachers both in the U.S. and Japan also cross-train.  For the most 
part, all of their teachers know and respect each other,
 and are cross-trainers themselves.   My teacher, Otani Sensei, when I 
spoke to him specifically about working with another teacher, 
interrupted my carefully-rehearsed permission-asking speech by saying, 
"That's okay, that's okay.  Once you know the principle,
 the technique doesn't matter."  I still can't say, all of these years 
later, that I fully understand his point, but I knew then I had the 
freedom to figure it out.
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