I write a lot
about my teachers, how important they are to me, what they teach me and our
relationship. With a few exceptions
though, you don’t see me using their names.
I wrote about a big Shinto Muso Ryu gasshuku recently, and never said
who was teaching it. I don’t usually
publish my teachers’ full names either.
That makes it difficult to check and see if I really do some of these
things or if I’m just blowing smoke.
In the budo I
practice, the teacher-student relationship is very strong, very important and
central to the nature of the budo.. The
classical ideal for relationships in Japan is that of the parent and child, and
many aspects of the budo teacher and student relationship resemble that. The teacher is ultimately responsible for what
the student does and says in public, just as a parent is responsible for what a
child does and says, and the student is expected to look to the teacher for
direction and to support the teacher publically, even when there are
differences of opinion. This is quite
different from the way teacher-student relationships work in the USA, where I
grew up and did my initial budo training.
Everything I say
and do will be seen in classical budo circles as a reflection on my teachers. If
I’m behaving badly or making ignorant or foolish comments, people in the budo
world will complain to them and ask about the kinds of things they are teaching
me. It’s my responsibility to be a good
representative of my teachers, and to do nothing that might embarrass them or cause
them problems. If I say something, it
will be seen as being authorized and approved by my teacher. My teachers will be held responsible for
cleaning up any messes that I make. The
classical budo world in Japan is small, and you’re almost never more than a
couple of degrees away from someone.
My teachers each
took a risk in accepting me as their student, but they didn’t do it lightly or
quickly. No one makes you sit for weeks
by the temple gate in a typhoon before they accept you as a student, but you
don’t become someone’s student just by signing the roster and paying your
monthly dues. Wayne Muromoto has a nice
story about people who go to a teacher but don’t get taught the real thing. These people aren’t real students, the
teacher doesn’t trust them, doesn’t teach them genuine art, and takes no
responsibility for what they do when the leave.
When I came to
Japan, I joined a great local Judo dojo, paid my monthly dues and went to every
practice I could. I wasn’t a student
though. I was guest. I wasn’t a student
until I had been there at least a year.
After that first year I started getting invited to dojo social events
and trips, and most notable for me, my name appeared on the dojo member
board. The teachers were taking public
responsibility for me. At that moment my
status went from being another guy who trains there, to Yoshikawa Sensei’s
student. Up until then, if I did
something stupid in practice or at a tournament, well, I was just a guy who was
passing though. After that, I was
Sensei’s student and if I did something wrong, I wouldn’t be told
directly. Sensei would get chewed out
for not having taught me properly and he would be responsible for the
consequences of my actions. I would only
hear about whatever pain and embarrassment I had caused after Sensei had
started cleaning up the mess.
If things work
this way in a gendai budo like Judo, they are even more intensely personal in a
koryu bugei. Koryu bugei are not openly
taught public entities like Judo or Aikido or Kendo. They are more like family treasures shared
with just family and close friends whom you deeply trust. It takes a long time to really earn that, and
it’s not always an easy relationship. The
responsibilities and expectations can be quite high. I have on occasion made mistakes which my
teachers have taken me to task for, whether it is something simple like doing a
poor job during a demonstration (I now hate and fear youtube. Any mistake I make in public will be
preserved and broadcast for eternity!) or something more serious such as how or
what I am teaching. I learned early on
to be really careful about public behavior so I don’t embarrass them. They worked really hard to teach me the ins
and outs of navigating the budo world so I won’t embarrass them or anyone, myself
included.
I first entered
the koryu budo world by invitation of a sword smith, an artist of the first
rank. Knowing Nakagawa Sensei lead me to
my first iaido teacher, who introduced me to others, where I encountered a
Shinto Muso Ryu student who introduced me to her teacher who introduced me to
his teacher, who accepted me as his student and who introduced me to his
teacher who graciously welcomes me into his dojo as a student of his
student. There were a lot of
introductions along that path, and many people who stood to suffer if I didn’t
behave well and respectably. Now that I
have been accepted as a student, everything I do reflects directly back on my
teachers.
The
responsibility isn’t just a one-way street though. As I said, if I make a mistake or cause a
problem, I may not hear about it until after Sensei has started cleaning up the
mess. If I’m responsible for being a
good representative of my teacher, he is responsible for teaching me well and
taking responsibility for any problems I may cause. The closer the student-teacher relationship,
the bigger the responsibility this becomes.
Initially this responsibility is only within the budo world, but it can
grow to include all sorts of aspects of life outside the budo world. Teachers have been known to help people find
jobs and arrange marriages and secure loans.
Teachers accept a lot of responsibility when they accept a student.
Just as the
teacher accepts responsibility for the student, the student accepts
responsibility for the teacher. Teachers
are not ultimate paragons of humanity.
They have been known to drink too much, say the wrong thing at the wrong
time, and engage in feuds, just like everyone else. Once you have passed beyond that probationary
period and are really someone’s student, that’s all your responsibility
too. If Sensei drinks too much somewhere
and makes a mess, it’s his students who make sure he gets home OK and clean up
after him. If Sensei has a fight or a
feud with someone, you are automatically included on Sensei’s side.
The web of
relationships and responsibilities extend far beyond just the teacher and
student involved in the core relationship and can have wide ranging
impacts. It’s no wonder teachers take a
long time before they consider a student to really be “theirs.” Students should really be spending that
probationary period looking very closely at the person they are considering
studying with as well, because the responsibility is a two way street, and just
as the student’s public behavior reflects on the teacher, the student is judged
by who their teacher is.
All of this is
to say that, for the most part, I don’t freely publish my teacher’s names and
contacts. I have friends whose names
have been used without their permission to gain access to their teachers, and I
want to protect my teachers from people like that. A fraud will eventually be discovered and
treated appropriately, but it’s my responsibility to make sure my teachers
don’t have to deal with one to begin with.
So if I don’t go putting my teachers’ names out there, please forgive
me.